What's Your Fucking Routine?
For me, the hottest way to start getting it on is poke round his hole, with ya dick, ...
... and then, when he's hot and itching to have you inside, flip him over and shove it in, pinning down for some solid porking ...
... getting his legs high up in the air - for easier access ...
A few changes of position are good to stop anyone going off point ...
... and some pashing - just to show him you really and truly care ...
... and a bit of body spooning, if he doesn't seem to be convinced by the kissing ...
Dins after can be nice - depending on how it went of course.
Finally, my rule of thumb for another 'date' is 7/10 or better!
What's your 'standard' in this?
I like the "missionary" position best, simply because I like making-out with a guy while we're coupled together. I'm versitile so it doesn't make any difference to me whether I'm topping or bottoming at the particular moment.
ReplyDeleteFor a return date? Sometimes guys don't perform well the first time they have sex with another guy. They might be nervous about their own performance, there's the experimentation and discovery of what the partner enjoys, lots of factors can inhibit a guy's "sexual performance." So I don't judge by one example. Of course there are those times when it's so damned great you bite pillows and claw varnish off headboards, but those are outside this discussion.
hey josh
ReplyDeletemissionary is good. if you're topping, a nice comfy almost water-bed experience - especially with a big furry bubble butt. and for bottoming, great for giving the feeling of being really held down and buggered
and curiously the second date can be a flop (so to speak) after the really hot abandoned fucking of a first 'date'
mmm
guess we just have to take our chances with #2!
Must be a senior moment but I can't remember just now ever having a second date with anyone I had on the first date. That's one of the problems with pick up fucks.
ReplyDeleteAs for position - any that has his hands all over my back. Use your imagination or invite me over.
Alan down in Florida
hey alan
ReplyDeletethose second dates are certainly a rarity - like that myth the guy getting off with his dad in the bushes - going back for a second 'helping' another day
i like my date to 'dress' up for the occasion i.e. wear his ankles as earrings! does anything more need to be said about position?
PS i think you'll guess this post was mainly for the legs and the you-know-whats
The what?
ReplyDeletehey josh
ReplyDeletewhat out of ten is good for a second date for you
or
and what's your routine in bed with a first date?
either is a bit revealing i know - but we're cyber friends now - and i won't tell anyone
take care and wait to hear
nick
Okay, well first off there are a number of factors that I use to decide if a one-date thing will become a two-date thing. Sex is kind of far down on the list.
ReplyDeleteIs the other guy interested in me as a person, as opposed to just the blue eyes, blond hair and a few muscles? Do we actually talk about things, do we share common interests, do we have something other than the equipment between our legs upon which to build a friendship or relationship?
Guys can learn how to become good in bed. You'd be totally surprised at the number of gay men with no, or with very little, bedroom experience. My feeling is that if the initial sex is a little disappointing and too plain vanilla, then it's because nobody ever took the time to tell them how it's supposed to be. I think that's one of the problems I had with my Marine. Nobody had ever fucked him, and he "liked it too much" so he had to re-establish a dominent position to assure himself of his manhood. But that's an aside.
What is the other guy's "romantic quotient?" A little romance is great, even on a first date. Did he take the time to arrange something a little romantic? Whether candelight, firelight, the sunset; did he try?
Is he a good kisser? This is very important to me personally, because I could make-out for hours getting each other hotter and hotter.
Does he have a sense of playfulness and fun that matches mine? I've had guys ask me how come I'm always grinning. I'm grinning because it's fun!
Can he converse? Do we have something to do and to talk about after we're uncoupled?
I do not tolerate drama queens very well. There is one thing that will assure that there will be no second date, and that is trying to make me the Wailing Wall of all the other guys emotional hangups. I'm not his psychanalyst! I don't want to be his psychanalyst! "I'm sorry you had a bad coming out experience with your parents... I'm sorry your father beat you... I'm sorry your life has no direction... I'm sorry the fucking Titanic sank... but constantly rehashing the tragidies of your life only continues to give the assholes who hurt you control over you!" I tell these guys "to reach around, pull your head out of your ass and take two tablespoons of Extract of Get Over Yourself."
Okay, more than you wanted to know I'll bet, but there it is.
Routine for a first bedding? It varies. Lots of making-out first... gradually stripping each other... little nips and bites, and suckling on this that and the other bits of him as they're revealed... touching including some massage... there's nothing more erotic for a guy than to be massaged and have his partner's hand work up into his crotch from between the thighs...
Then some oral action probably... passive/active and active/passive and then ein bischen neunundsechszig...
It doesn't have to end in fucking, although that's nice. It's a hang-up for some dudes and I can respect that.
I've discovered that lots of guys kind of lose interest in sex after they cum. Especially if they're "straight-bisexual-just curious." I try to have my cum first with guys like those or I'll be stuck with a very half-hearted hand job from them.
Remember from Music Man...
A boy who'll fuck on the first time around is nothing but a hussy!
And boy who'll fuck on the second time around is anything but fussy!
But a boy who'll fuck on the third time around, head in the clouds, feet on the ground; a boy who'll fuck on the third time around, he's your schapoopie!
hey josh
ReplyDeletefinally got round to replying to ya post!
yep, second dating is definitely a psychological thing - but seriously hot can prompt me to reach for the phone - the guy can't be an arsehole but i know i regulate my standards just a tad for looks :< i'm shallow but have (occasional) good sex with others.
i agree a lousy fuck doesn't necessary disqualify a guy for a second date. the first root can be just trying it on - and it can take a few goes to get the fit right
i reckon fucking is not something most guys start off doing - i didn't - so not getting there is no biggie on a first or twenty-first date.
and so true bout the kissing, and the big big smile, and being able to put one idea after another in a way that stimulates that organ between my ears - well, for me, it's pretty key. the hot rush at the end is always preceded by the talk and the long pash - so what's best to get right!
tho all of this i guess varies from one to another!
take care
nick
hey josh again
ReplyDeleteand then there's that something that seems to me impossible to put into specifics
i've had great rel's that i'd never predict given all my criteria here!
True. Some things can't be qualified or quantified. Like who would have known my roommate and I would have drifted into this "thing" we're drifting into.
ReplyDeleteI'm such an animal.
hey josh
ReplyDeletewhat i like about these guys is they seem to really be into it and seriously - not half hearted and joking
we all wanna do the drifting you're doing - josh-u-as animlitcus - the latin name for you as that sex animal
LOL
cya
nick